Tharlew’s Bond

He was just a stray, a lost cat. He meowed out of the broken wood and jumbled potted plants. Someone had dumped him from an unknown location and just dropped him off like he could take care of himself. Domesticated cats can’t hunt like wild cats.
They can’t survive alone.
People bring them home.
They love them for a time.
Then they grow up.
Lost in the world, abandoned and alone, crying out for a gentle hand to take care of them again.
He was that lost little cat, yearning for a home safe and warm that he once knew.
I went to check the mail and I didn’t see him. I heard his cries, a kitty in distress calling out to anyone who would hear him.
I called out to him, trilling and whispering, hoping to see a glimpse.
He bounded out of the shadows running to me, calling out and tracing my every step.
Not wanting to be abandoned again, but ever cautious of any impending danger, he stayed back.
Several attempts were made to show safety, to show the way.
He would not follow, his heart had already been broken.
Sadness crept up in my soul, I would see another one die on the streets.
Home again, I told the grand story of the brave little cat trying to find his people.
The sad crying cat wanted to come but went back into the shadows when the feeling of danger was too strong to go any further.
A young man of great stature and moral strength heard the desperation and urgency in my voice.
Leading him to the place I heard the cries, I hoped the forlorn cat was still there.
He bounded up again like before, calling out in earnest this time.
He wanted to know if he had found comfort and rest.
His people came.
The young man picked him up with ease.
He moved onto the man’s back.
A ride home, to a safe and warm place.
Tharlew he was named.
The young man had spoken it.
Skittish and afraid, he runs from other cats and our loving dogs.
For weeks he eats alone and steers clear of any canine interaction.
He clings to the young man.
The cat has claimed his person.
Special treats of chicken, fish, and beef are given.
He lays on the lap and sleeps under blankets.
Playful and loyal, he stays.
Home has been found once again.
Months pass by and he’s getting thin.
His bones and spine are jutting out.
He’s sick and dying, I have no words.
If only I could take him to the vet, but no.
No way to get him there.
Can’t afford the cost to help him feel better.
We must be strong.
Make him as comfortable as possible.
Watch him slowly whither away.
Sadness envelopes this household.
He still lies in his favorite spot.
He’s alive, but we know he’s sick.
Poor Tharlew, what a wonderful gift.
Only to be ripped away by sickness.
My son’s heart will be shattered when he dies.
For he was the young man who brought Tharlew home.

The Inspiration is Real

I love watching. Whether it be YouTube, Twitch, On Demand, or other entertainment venue, I love watching, learning, and just being inspired by those I watch. Sometimes I interact and the benefits of the interaction far outweighs just watching.

The comments left on videos or in chats give me more satisfaction than live streaming on my own channels. Yes, I do have Twich, YouTube, Facebook, and all that. For me, though, it’s more about helping others feel happy, inspired, loved, and even motivated to change their lives for the better!

This is the beginning of a series I feel very strongly about.I have thought it over and have decided this is the best place to declare my utmost appreciation for those who have really changed my life in one way or another.

The Wrong Way To Make Money Online

I have tried so many avenues of ‘get rich online’ websites, classes, and ideas that I should be an expert, right??

WRONG! I haven’t made a dime online except for my eBay selling Site!! You want to know WHY I haven’t made money with all these great ideas?

Keep reading to find out what NOT to do if you want to make a lot of money online, or even a little!

When I first started this game of finding my perfect niche as many of the people I watched or read from say, I absorbed it like a sponge, getting as many little details as possible.

I was going to really catch fire with it and hit the ground running! The problem is, I didn’t have my own website. So I ended up looking at many different sources to see what website would be best.

I talked to my husband and he suggested I go for an American company with amazing customer service. So I kept searching.

Turns out, I found this great company that has all the services I needed. So I signed up with GoDaddy and thought…

“YES!! I can make a lot of money now! I have a website!

-M Webbily

That was all good until I realized that nothing would happen unless I actually DID something with my website.


So the first wrong thing I did was nothing! I know! How could I be such an idiot?!? Well answer me this… As easy as it is to build a website, how easy is it to keep it maintained?

Since I am a procrastinator at heart and I never seem to finish things, I ended up not doing anything on my website for a year and that sucks.

No traffic to my site, no sales, nothing to motivate me to keep going. So then I started to write articles from time to time. That seemed to get me some traffic.

The Second

Okay, so I started writing things… great! What was I supposed to do when that didn’t seem to pan out? Well I’m also not as patient as I could be and I ended up not maintaining my website after a few great articles.

So at first I did nothing, and secondly I didn’t keep going. I had signed up to a few affiliate programs and thought I would be making big money until I realized I didn’t see any results.

I didn’t see results because I wasn’t keeping my content fresh and reliable. Maintaining your website is a big factor in whether or not you make any money.

Web The 3rd

So I loved being a part of something bigger! All these affiliates and I was going to show them great things! I was going to put them on a pedestal on my website! I WAS… turns out they don’t like it very much if you don’t check in from time to time and acually POST something.

So First I did nothing, Second, I didn’t maintain.


Making decisions about what’s important and what should be posted first is a BIG factor in whether you make money online or not. I get distracted… A LOT. So how the F do I stay focused?

I have found my focus in a world of chaos! 

If you want to know what NOT to do and how not to be a total failure in this world of tech and billions of websites trying to snag your cash and start making your own way, Join me in my quest to find YOUR focus in this world of chaos!!

Fill out the form below! In the message space, mention “FIND MY FOCUS!” and I’ll send you more info!